If you start getting on his case (“Why didn’t you call? ”, etc.) he will feel trapped and suffocated and start pulling away. Ever since I could remember, I've always been afraid of walking up and talking to women.I was frozen to the spot, and I didn't know what to say or do.I I had to go over and talk to her in order to get anything started, but I couldn't seem to find a way to DO IT.You know, that one woman that just grabs your eye, and you get obsessed - just thinking about what it would be like to talk to her, and maybe hold her in your arms on a date...And the second I saw this woman and I figured out that I really wanted to meet her, I would experience this total "lock-up" in my brain.When the rejections we experience are substantial, the urgency of treating our wounds with emotional first aid is far greater.

Emotional Pain: Why Even Stupid Rejections Smart a Lot Imagine you’re sitting in a waiting room with two other strangers.Most statistics state than shyness is somewhat more common for girls than for guys.Nevertheless, make no mistake about it, there are heaps of shy guys out there, and many of them are in fact extremely inhibited.I can't explain where the heck it came from, because I have never had a woman throw her drink in my face or slap me - but this women.My experience usually went something like this: I would walk into a bar, or a restaurant - or anywhere I might meet an attractive woman - and then I would see HER.This blog is not meant to professionally treat people psychologically.The owner of this blog makes no representations as to the accuracy or completeness of any information on this site or found by following any link on this site.