That’s the question I asked in my last blog and I may have ruffled a few feathers suggesting that saving it until marriage might not be the only choice.I argued that the problem with kissing before marriage isn’t a kiss is.But there are those kisses that can be too much too soon.How do we define kisses so that we make God-honoring internalized decisions about when and what kind of kisses to give our special guy. Which of these five kinds of kisses do you think are OK outside of marriage? Teaser Kiss-Start by kissing his check or forehead softly. Maybe you could mentally draw a line where you’d decide to stop the kissing. Assuming you agree that the gift of sex is to be reserved for marriage, it is also assumed that you don’t want to rev up the engine—either his or yours—in an effort to reserve the intimate act of becoming one for your marriage bed.

The Birth of Popular Culture traces the history of the romantic kiss, arguing that it was a transgressive act that ultimately created popular culture.The Virtual-You probably already know how this works, but this simple sign— :-* — sends a kiss across the Internet. Planting Kiss-Contribute by meeting lip to lip with his. Linger slowly in each spot as you kiss your way to his mouth. (Ephesians 5:3 then urges that there would not be a “hint” of sexual sin (or misuse outside of marriage) in us.) Let me tell you how you might find yourself hinting at sexual sin—and revving up the engine—before marriage with a kiss. •Saliva contains testosterone, which increases sexual arousal.Brotherly Kiss-Let him gently place his lips on your head or your cheek. The Oh la la-The French variation is where you start to open your mouth for him, and he for you. •Researchers believe that a man can subconsciously measure estrogen levels, increasing his sexual desire. If both of you are excited to kiss each other and are sexually attracted to each other, a first kiss is almost always perfect. There’s no way you can ever tell what would happen unless you take the plunge. You may not know this, but a first kiss can actually predict the chemistry and the sexual excitement of both the kissers.If long-term couples no longer kiss, she says, it may be because they don't have to.Arizona State University researchers found that married or cohabiting couples instructed to "frequently kiss" reported not only less stress and more relationship satisfaction, but also a decrease in ("bad") cholesterol levels.